just drink the water where you came from.

I'm going to use this blog post as a form of carthasis.
I really don't care - I'm in one of those over-emotional moods, within which, everything feels shitty and you just want to scream until your lungs explode.

Why do people act differently around different people?
Why do they lie about their likes and dislikes to other people?

It makes absolutely no sense.
I don't understand why you would change your personality and everything that you are, just to impress or fit in with someone else. Surely, and especially if, you're going against everything that you believe in order to be someone's friend, then you're not really their friend. 1. You're lying to them and lying really isn't the best foundation for a friendship. And 2. It can't be fun to pretend to be someone that you're not.

Why do you even care?
Not everyone can like you or want to be friends with you.
Why is this such an issue?
Okay, so someone doesn't like you - so fucking what. For one, it's their choice and secondly, they're the one missing out after all. I don't get why people think you need to have everything in common with someone else to be their friend. Hell, you and your best friend might have arguements about crap all the time, but that doesn't mean that you aren't best friends.

Variety is the spice of life!
I don't want to converse with carbon copies day after day. I want you to disagree with me, to argue with me, to show some bloody passion for what you're talking about. That's what's going to make you interesting - differing opinions.

Right next point.
We've all got a friend like it. They're one thing to us and then when trying to make new friends, they're a completely different person. Most of the time, when they're talking to these other people, all you can think is 'What the actual fuck? What are you actually talking about? No, you don't like that. No, you never do that.' All they do is spout lies, and you don't want to embarrass them by calling them up on their shit but seriously.

I. Do. Not. Get. It.

I mean, I completely understand that you want to make friends and fit in, but do you have to compromise your whole self to do it? And you can try and pass it off as 'I'm changing', but are you really? Are you really changing? Because last week, you fucking hated smoking.

♥Lydia.